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Learn english Tag: 迷你倉 | 自存倉 | 儲存 | Mini Storage | Storage | business center | business centre (fx) | virtual office | business services | office rental | business centre hong kong | Company Secretary | Incorporation | accounting | 虛擬辦公室 | 商務中心 (fx) | 辦公室 租用 | 商業 服務 | 香港 商務中心 | 服務 式 辦公室 | 即用辦公室 | 公司秘書 | 會計 | 註冊地址 | 成立公司 | gift | gifts | gift ideas | souvenirs | premium | present | usb flash drive | souvenir | personalized gifts | premiums | corporate gift | bobbleheads | wedding gift | 禮品 | 禮物 | 精品 | 醫學美容 | 激光美容 | 男士美容 | 美容護理 | 通淋巴 | 排毒 | 瘦身 | 修身 | 射頻 | RF | BOTOX | 瘦面 | RESTYLANE | 美白 | 敏感肌膚 | 凹凸洞 | 收毛孔 | 燒脂減肥 | 水腫 | 去斑 | 色斑 | 幹細胞 | 纖體 | 減肥 | Slimming | 果酸換膚 | 微針 | Keep Fit | Beauty | Facial | bb衫 | 嬰兒服裝 | baby gap | 日韓童裝 | 夾衣 | kids | online shopping | 情侶裝 | 童裝 | 男裝 | 日本時裝 | 連身裙 | 日韓時裝 | 童裝批發 | baby Loving with an Open Hand 放愛一條生路 The other day as I talked with a friend I recalled a story that I heard this summer. "A compassionate person, seeing a butterfly struggling to free itself from its cocoon, and wanting to help, very gently loosened the filaments to form an opening. The butterfly was freed, emerged from the cocoon, and fluttered about but could not fly. What the compassionate person did not know was that only through the birth struggle can the wings grow strong enough for flight. Its shortened life was spent on the ground; it never knew freedom, never really lived." 　　前幾天和一位朋友閑聊時，我想起今年夏天聽到的一個故事：“有個人很富有同情心，看到一只蝴蝶拼命掙扎想沖破繭的束縛，就幫了個忙，輕輕地解開繭絲使其露出一個缺口。蝴蝶得到解放，從繭中出來振翅欲飛，然而卻飛不起來。這位富有同情心的人所不知道的是，只有經過掙扎破繭而出，翅膀才能變得強壯，可以飛翔。這只蝴蝶短暫的生命只能在地上度過了，它從未嘗過自由的滋味，沒有真正享受過生活。” I call it learning to love with an open hand. It is a learning which has come slowly to me and has been wrought in the fires of pain and in the waters of patience. I am learning that I must free the one I love, for if I clutch or cling, try to control, I lose what I try to hold. 　　我把它叫做學會放愛一條生路。這個教訓經歷了痛苦的鍛造和耐心的洗禮，我才逐漸認識到。我學會了必須給所愛的人自由，如果我抓得太緊、緊握不放、設法控制，結果可能會失去他們。 If I try to change someone I love because I feel I know how that person should be, I rob him or her of a precious right, the right to take responsibility for one's own life and choices and way of being. Whenever I impose my wish or want or try to exert power over another, I rob him or her of the full realization of growth and maturation. I limit and prevent by my act of possession, no matter how kind my intention. 　　如果我試圖改變所愛的人，僅僅因為我覺得他/她應該這樣，就等于是掠奪了他/她的一項珍貴的權利，即他/她對自己生命的責任權和生活方式的選擇權。無論何時我把自己的意志和權力強加給別人，都會導致他/她無法完全成長和成熟。無論我的意圖多么善良，我的控制行為還是限制和阻礙了他們。 I can limit and injure by the kindest acts of protection or concern. Over extended it can say to the other person more eloquently than words, "You are unable to care for yourself; I must take care of you because you are mine. I am responsible for you." 　　即使保護或關心這種最善意的行為也會限制和傷害別人。“你無法照顧自己，我必須照顧你，因為你是我的，我要對你負責。”對別人說這么動人的語言遠遠超越了你的權力。 Study English

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